The Word : After it's Said
The Occasion : After the Loss !
The Time: After it's Gone !
The Stone: After the Throw !
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Friday
7.15am wake up and went to Hougang hospital with dad. No, he is not mad... he need to see the doctor there because we cant really effort the expensive medication from Private doctor.
It took us half a day to settle everything and 21 days of mc was given to him and he need to see a special doctor on 24 nov and a pschology on 27 nov. Hai... he simply had too much to worry that causes him to be in this situation. Back home 1pm and finally i can eat because i din eat my breakfast.
Heard from mum one of our relative was in JB hospital in ICU. Straight after my Quick lunch, my sis stay home to take care dad and i accompany my mum and aunt to JB Hospital.
I was kind of angry with the nurses over there, they are unfriendly and they do not allow me to enter the wards because i was wearing a skirt. My skirt should be Long not touches the knee cap. I waited my mum and aunty alone out side the hospital. I saw that nurse allow people who are malay to go in and they do not take the pass..? then why i cannot go in? I saw she onli stop chinese.. well i try not to think she is racist!
I was sitting at the emergency area and when i saw some one in pain came to hospital, some how i dun find the sense of emergency from the nurses. WHY? Suddenly, i miss singapore way of services and management. Recalling last year my dad was in ICU because of his Heart porblem. The nurses was so kind to us even though we are in a big group of 7, she explain nicely and then allow 2 by 2 to visit my dad . That should be the way but when my mum came out from the hospital, she told me she did not manage to see the patient because the nurse in JB hospital stop her. Mum keep begging her but she din approve instead she BANG THE TABLE.! where is the SERVICE? Mum and I later wait till when there are many people entering the gate, we quickily sneak in. GO VISIT PATIENT AS IF I AM STEALLING SOMETHING, WAT A BIG JOKE?
We left straight after the visit. She was in ICU, and was coma...home about 6pm and i had a quick dinner and went to temple with my family. Dad dun seem right again. He said he had a bad dream and he suddenly feel very scare... Went to the temple and i walk home with him because he felt like walking home. I accompany him and I started to comfort him and try to councel him...
IT was REALLY a tiring day to me and i sleep all the way till this morning....
Guess wat.... 10am - My Relative passed away... -
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Is like so scary.. yesterday just saw her, today she is gone..
